Reflections from Romania

We hope to use this blog to keep you informed with what is happening with our ministry in Romania.

Monday, August 30, 2010

Back to Des Moines




We enjoyed our stay in Austin, Minnesota. Our time with Paul and Kate ended with a baby shower for Levi who is due to arrive September 27. All of Nancy's female relatives from Des Moines drove up to Austin for the shower. Kate's sister and three nieces drove down from the Minneapolis area and joined Kate's mom and grandmother at the shower, too. We had a wonderful time of food, conversation and prayer and, of course, gifts.


Sunday morning we spoke at Austin Christian Fellowship and we enjoyed the service and being able to see so many good friends.


Now we are back in Des Moines looking forward to spending a few days with Nate and Isaac while their parents are in meetings.

Friday, August 27, 2010

Minnesota Visit

This week we are visiting our son Paul and his wife Kate for a few days. We arrived in Minnesota on Wednesday, in time for youth church. We snapped a picture of some of the kids waiting outside the youth building. (The guys in the youth group had just scraped the building, preparing it for paint later this week.) Youth service was great. Since the worship team was missing its drummer this week, Mike filled in and did a good job, especially considering he hasn't played the drums in almost three years! Paul preached a great sermon, too. Of course, we had to make the traditional visit to the Spam Museum. Here we got a picture of Paul and Kate and Levi! Levi is scheduled to make his appearance on September 27. We will be in California at that time, but hope to be back in Minnesota to meet him in early November.

Tuesday, August 24, 2010

Michigan Visit


We just spent a few wonderful days with our son Matt and his wife Mandy in Michigan. Besides doing other things, we went to a small town music festival, an art museum, and a huge book store . The best part was just spending time with some of our most favorite people in the whole world. We are thankful for Skype, email and international phone calls, but hugs are best!
On the way back, we went through Ohio and stopped by Mike's brother's home. We only had time for supper, sleep and a game of golf, but it was great to see Dann and Karla. Plus we got to see their daughter Julie and meet her new husband (of more than two years) Jacob.

Friday, August 20, 2010

Happy Birthday Hungary...and Mike!

Today we celebrate two birthdays, Hungary's and Mike's! 1010 years ago Hungary crowned its first king, King Steven. All day Hungary is filled with festivals, parades and fireworks. We miss celebrating in our adopted country.

Today is also Mike's birthday. Sorry, Mike, no fireworks or flower carnival this year. We are celebrating by being with our kids in Michigan and going out to eat. Happy birthday, Mike!

Monday, August 16, 2010

Family Visits

We are planning in the next couple of weeks to visit all our sons and their families. Wednesday we drive to Michigan to see Matt and Mandy. Next week we go to Minnesota to visit Paul and Kate. Then the following Monday, Mark will arrive in Des Moines with his wife and two little boys. Grandma and Papa have volunteered to babysit while Mark and Nadine attend some meetings. Looks like fun times ahead!

Friday, August 13, 2010

"Do A Couple Laps For Me"

I (Mike) have been trying to get out early in the morning to exercise before it gets really hot. This morning as I was on my walk, a lady came out of her house to get something from her car. When she saw me she said, "Do a couple laps for me!" I laughed and continued on my walk.

I knew she was joking, but I got to thinking about the idea behind her comment. What she was basically hinting at is that I would do all the work, yet she would benefit from it. Of course, that is not possible when it comes to physical exercise, but do we see that mindset in other areas of life?

How much of our society has this mindset when it comes to social or financial responsibilities? Isn't there an expectation among some for the rich, entrepreneurs and hard-workers to share the fruit of their labors with those who don't have? One group does all the work, while the other group wants to receive the benefits from the others' labors. Now, I'm not talking about helping those in need. In fact, we are commanded in the Bible to minister to the poor, widows, orphans, and those who truly have a need. That is something different. Here, I am talking about a "welfare mentality" where people, for whatever reason, don't take responsibility for their own financial and social health, yet expect to benefit from the labor of others. This mindset puts a drain on society as a whole, and really does not benefit anyone.

Now, putting politics aside, let's take this a step further. I believe this mindset is even stronger in the church regarding our spiritual responsibility. In Exodus 20:19-21, when God appeared on Mt. Sinai the Israelites became frightened and stood afar off. They also said to Moses, "(Deu 5:27) Go thou near, and hear all that the LORD our God shall say: and speak thou unto us all that the LORD our God shall speak unto thee; and we will hear it, and do it." In other words, "Moses, you do all the work of going to the mountaintop and listening to God, then tell us what He said and we will be blessed."

And, isn't that the thinking of most of the people in our congregations? "Pastor, you spend the time in prayer, seeking God, listening to His voice; then we will gather on Sundays to hear what God says to you so we can receive a blessing." "Pastor, you do all the work and we will receive the benefit" "Pastor, run a couple laps for me."

Somehow, we have developed the idea that as long as there are people who will study the Bible for us, preach good sermons, and write helpful books we don't need to do anything else. That is sufficient for our spiritual health and development. Let them do the work and we will receive the benefits from their labor.

The apostle Paul, however, says that each of us is to take responsibility for our own spiritual health and growth. He says, "(Php 2:12-13) Wherefore, my beloved, as ye have always obeyed, not as in my presence only, but now much more in my absence, work out your own salvation with fear and trembling. For it is God which worketh in you both to will and to do of his good pleasure." It is the Holy Spirit who will bring the growth, but we must do our part of studying His Word, praying, seeking Him and listening to His voice. This requires discipline and effort.

We cannot expect to grow healthy spiritually through someone else's study, any more than we can expect to grow healthy physically by having someone else exercise for us. If you want a healthy body, you must discipline yourself to eat right and exercise. If you want to be healthy financially, you must discipline yourself to work hard and live within your means. And, if you want to be healthy spiritually, you must discipline yourself to study the Bible and learn to hear God's voice for yourself. There is no other way around it. It doesn't work to ask someone to "do a couple laps" for you.

Wednesday, August 11, 2010

Sister Day

Yesterday was Sister Day! It has been 5 years since Nancy and her sisters have all been together. Yesterday we met in Des Moines and had a great time together.
Neola, Leota, Leona, Delores, Nancy, and Abbey


We began with breakfast that Neola cooked on her grill and continued with conversation (lots of it), making birthday cards for each other, going out for lunch, and meeting at Delores' house for birthday cake with some of the rest of the family.

And we had a spent a lot of time laughing and just enjoying being together. Thank the Lord for family, especially sisters!
The triplets being silly. :-)

Saturday, August 7, 2010

Go Iowa Cubs!

Last night we were invited by a family circle group from First Church of the Open Bible here in Des Moines to join them at the Iowa Cubs Baseball game. It sure was fun! We saw friends we had not seen for some time, made some new friends, cheered with the crowd for the home team, and just had a good time together. Not only did the Cubs win 11 to 6, but our section got coupons for free hot dogs at the local convience store, our ticket stubs were good for free tacos at Taco Bell, and we got to see fireworks at the end of the game!

Plus, Nancy was able to enjoy the game with two of her sisters and brothers-in-law, Nick and Leona Venditti and Jim and Delores Winegar. What a fun night!


Wednesday, August 4, 2010

Thanks, Missions Staff!


L-r Delores Winegar, Julie Patten, Vince McCarty and Jim Winegar


Today we had lunch with the Open Bible International Ministries staff. These wonderful people are a vital part of our ministry in Hungary. They provide the authority, covering, and stateside business support we need when we are in and out of the country.

Vince McCarty is the Executive Director of Open Bible International Ministries. He and the International Ministries Board give guidance and direction to our work. Vince is our "boss."

Delores Winegar is the Executive Secretary. Like good secretaries everywhere, she knows everything and does everything. For example, she knows who to contact for all the details we need worked out when we're out of the country, answers a million of our questions and collects our mail for us.

Julie Patten is the bookkeeper. She receives our donations, keeps track of them, handles our ministry finances and sees that we get our paycheck.

Jim Winegar is one of the receptionists (and Delores' husband) and represents the rest of the Open Bible Churches staff who also do multitudes of tasks for us.

Here's a big "thank you" to you all! We love having you on our team!

Tuesday, August 3, 2010

What Are You Doing Now?

Since we have arrived in the United States, we have been asked, "So, what are you doing now? How do you spend your time?"

We are back in the US mainly to visit churches, report on what God is doing in Hungary, thank our supporters and ask people to continue to support the growth of INSTE in Hungary through their prayers and finances. This involves not only visiting churches on Sunday mornings but on other days of the week as well. When we visit churches at times other than Sunday mornings, it is usually in small groups or special meetings (sometimes potluck meals) especially arranged for people to meet us and to hear what we say. We prepare for these meetings by praying and seeking what God would have us say and do in the services, and by writing letters and emails and making phone calls to pastors and those setting up our schedule. Much of our time is taken up in travel when we are visiting churches.

Right now, before our scheduled church visits begin, we are taking care of details like doctor visits, prayer card ordering, letter writing and such. Since we are in Des Moines right now, we are taking care of some business with the International Ministries office. It's great to work with these vital members of our ministry team in person instead of by mail or email for a change. We are using some vacation time to visit family and get a little rest. We are also setting aside as much time as possible for studying the Hungarian language so that we will not forget what we have worked so hard to learn!

Thanks for asking. Any more questions?