Respect

We are continuing our short series on differences between Hungarian and American culture that affect our work here in Hungary.

One aspect of Hungarian culture that we really enjoy is the attitude of respect.  Yesterday we were on the tram and could not find two seats together, so I sat in a single seat and Mike stood beside me.  A young man near us saw us and changed seats so that we could sit together.  Often when the tram has more passengers, a younger person will offer their seat to Nancy if she is standing.

Respect is shown in many other ways.  Children are taught from early age to greet elders with "Csókolom!" (I kiss your hand.)  Men use the same greeting with women.  Men hold the door open for women and carry packages for them. Young people always allow older people to go ahead of them.

We almost blush sometimes from the respect shown to us as directors of INSTE.  When we visit churches, even if we are not speaking, we are invited to sit in the front row and kind things are always said about us. 

We must be careful to show respect to others also, remembering to greet others properly and with kindness and to honor others.  What a practical way to show love to others, by treating them with honor and respect!