Hungarians
In just over a month, we will be returning to the US for itineration, that is, to visit churches to report what we have been doing here in Hungary and to raise funds to return to continue our work here. While we are excited to be able to spend some time at home and to see our children and grandchildren, we will miss Hungary. Here are a few things I (Nancy) will miss about the Hungarians:
Hungarians are polite and respectful. Men hold doors and carry heavy items for women and older people. Children are taught to greet their elders properly and with respect. Men and younger people offer their seats on the bus and tram to women and the elderly. It took me a while to get used to this, but when I realized it was a sign of respect, not condescension, I came to enjoy it.
Hungarians take time. Friends greet each other on the street, and they not only say hi, but stop to chat for a few minutes. Social events last for hours. It is not unusual to arrive for a dinner party at six and stay until midnight. Church social events can last all day. Guests are encouraged to relax and have long conversations with each other. I am still working on getting used to all-day social events. I'm not sure why, but I'm working on it.
Hungarians are patient. It is amazing to watch Hungarians wait in line at the post office or grocery store. They don't fidget or incessantly look at their watches, they just wait their turn. Amazing.
Hungarians are relational. Neighbors expect to help each other. Our eye doctor neighbor has helped us several times with medical matters and refused payment. And families are especially important. Hungarian university students routinely return home for weekends and holidays. It is assumed that even if children leave home to find work, they will return with their families frequently. Many grown children take less-paying jobs to be able to live closer to their families.
Of course, Hungarians, like Americans, have not-so-nice characteristics, too, but these are a few of the good things we miss when we are away.
Hungarians are polite and respectful. Men hold doors and carry heavy items for women and older people. Children are taught to greet their elders properly and with respect. Men and younger people offer their seats on the bus and tram to women and the elderly. It took me a while to get used to this, but when I realized it was a sign of respect, not condescension, I came to enjoy it.
Hungarians take time. Friends greet each other on the street, and they not only say hi, but stop to chat for a few minutes. Social events last for hours. It is not unusual to arrive for a dinner party at six and stay until midnight. Church social events can last all day. Guests are encouraged to relax and have long conversations with each other. I am still working on getting used to all-day social events. I'm not sure why, but I'm working on it.
Hungarians are patient. It is amazing to watch Hungarians wait in line at the post office or grocery store. They don't fidget or incessantly look at their watches, they just wait their turn. Amazing.
Hungarians are relational. Neighbors expect to help each other. Our eye doctor neighbor has helped us several times with medical matters and refused payment. And families are especially important. Hungarian university students routinely return home for weekends and holidays. It is assumed that even if children leave home to find work, they will return with their families frequently. Many grown children take less-paying jobs to be able to live closer to their families.
Of course, Hungarians, like Americans, have not-so-nice characteristics, too, but these are a few of the good things we miss when we are away.
posted by Mike and Nancy Juntunen @ 11:54 AM
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